Tuesday, December 7, 2010

'no' is a complete sentence!

what is it with ppl dat doesn`t take no for an answr??

Do you wanna get married? No, i`ll never be ready for that
Do you wanna have kids? No, i don`t know how to deal with kids
Do you wanna go for PhD? No, i wanna take a break
Do you want  ice cream? No, ill hv my own, stop shoving the ice cream corn in my face!

These are just day to day things that ive faced. However when a stranger approaches you, offering help with groceries or something similar you should be more careful.
according to this book i`m reading (The Gift of fear- Gavin De Becker) , When someone doesn`t take 'no' for an answer, the next question u should ask yourself is 'why are you trying to control me?'. This information is especially important for women because men who ignores the word 'no' often turn  abusive or possesive or both.The book also mentions early warning signs of danger you should consider when you are about to get into a relationship, getting out of a relationship, dealing with strangers, etc.
Its a really good book teaching women to sharpen their intuitive skills and how to avoid danger.Must read for all women..

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