This post is about a friend of mine, I've known her for 3 years now and she is actually a lot younger than me. We are quite similar when it comes to our interests and beliefs; especially about not ever getting married! Well ever since I went down that road and got hitched (sigh) she has been asking me how it is and what its like.
Anyway she sent me a text saying she found a bf last night! Ah first love! she called and went on and on about how noone thought she would ever find interest in boys, how she can`t eat or sleep and how she only thinks about him...........I am really happy for her, I really am, but there is this feeling deep inside of me that at some point she would call me and cry about how he hurt her. I know that not all men are heart-breakers, But this is her very first relationship. I'm worried that if he breaks her heart it would break her and change her. Heartbreaks always changes people. And I wish i can tell her that in the end its not just love, there's a lot of other compatibilities that needs to go right for relationships to work. I wish i can tell her that people change and she should always have her own back and make sure she has her own world and not give it up completely to another person. I guess these things have to be learned. For now I'm very happy for her that she has found that rosy first love. I wish her all happiness and hope she really is happy with him.
And I really hope that he would do everything to keep her happy and love her with all his heart.
Bcz I know how much it hurts and how much I have changed. Either way I have grown as a person and know for a fact that i'm the strongest person I know :)
I really need to have a bit more faith on men :D
