Project

I`ve always dreamt of living in my own place ( bachelorette pad rather). Anyway since i`m living in SL and parents have this 'not allowed to move out till marriage` rule, i thought i`m atleast going to decorate & furnish my place, and of course the garden. My mom is opposing big time, regardless of that, i`m going to decorate my place. I don`t know when but everything starts with the mental picture right. so, i thought whenever i see a picture of something i want in my place, i`m gonna post here. so when the time comes, it`ll be a lot easier to pick stuff to my place.

                                            wallpaper from here

Lesson #4

You read (or know) about cheating husbands/boyfriends, crappy marriages/relationships, the pain of heartbreak...etc...but don`t let those prevent you from getting closer to people. Live life. After all its been said that 'In 20 years you will regret the things that you didn`t do than the things that you did`. But make sure that you have your own back because, people will come and go from your life and you should be able to stand on your own feet and take a walk by yourself;while having a good conversation... with yourself of course :)

why do i...

...feel like a sad little puppy now?

Lesson # 3

Try to give your full attention when someone is talking to you, especially when it comes to your parents. Don`t keep staring at the tv or pc when they are talking to you. Don`t check mails or browse the net when you`re on the phone. And don`t keep checking your phone if your out on a date or hanging out with friends. People will feel it when you give their full attention and when you don`t. Remember how you would feel if you talk and the person you`re talking to goes on nodding and texting at the same time.  Everyone deserves to be heard.

Grimm

              only three episodes so far, I already love the show! Hope it doesn`t get cancelled :)

Hurt

you are not sure whether you want to stick around or not. I`m glad you are being honest with me, i really am. For me , personally, when i meet someone that i can be myself with, have long conversations with, that i`m attracted to, that i have feelings for...I don`t take that for granted. That`s a lesson i learned the hard way. so if you want to draw a line, just because you don`t wanna hurt me; i will respect that. I`ll try my best to keep a relevant distance; i can`t promise that though, i`m weak in that sense, but i`ll be stronger. But please know that I`ll always be here , if you need to talk or anything... 

The call

phone starts ringing in the middle of my evening nap..
me: (sleepily) Hello
  ?  : Is this Ms...............?
me:  Yes
?  : You have an interview next Tuesday, at 2.30..You applied for the post of X(?)
me: er........(trying to figure out which one, out of thousands of places i applied).......yeah
?   : meet Mr.X when you get there
me: er......(stop talking like a dumbo you nut, they are calling you for an interview!)..Mr.X is it?
?   : yes ..(by now she figured i had no idea )...do you want the address?

me : YES (sound professional you dummy)
? : ................................
me: Thank you
?  : You`re welcome
me: bye 
me: running to match that address with the ones that i applied to....

....oh joy.....

lesson #2

sometimes its a lot better to keep your thoughts to yourself. Especially when it comes to family. You may not believe in the same things that they believe in, or follow their traditions, just don`t say it out loud. Staying quiet and not questioning(or mocking) them will keep you from a lot of troubles.

lesson #1

Your mom always has an agenda, sometimes it may be of your best interest, sometimes its not. So approach with caution, think things through, and DON`T fight back. That will make her more aggressive and determined. Be more sneaky. Do what feels right.