2014 recap

I started doing a 'recap of the year post' in 2010 (i guess) when I first started blogging. Didn`t know that it would be so weird and wonderful at the same time to read those old posts again. So I thought of writing another post about this year, actually this year was full of so many things so I have to make a note of it, here goes..

• Became the proud owner of a brand new car which was given to me by dad on my B'day! I think this was the year I bonded with my dad the most(not just bcz of the bday gift)
• Met few friends from work that I bonded with and helped me a lot through tough times, truly grateful for them
• I was 'told' that I will be officially getting hitched. well long story short; I hate marriage and weddings, my mom booked the place, i eventually said fine cz the guy was not from a proposal :D 
• Sooo the rest of the year was getting something (cheap & nice) to wear for the wedding and pulling it off within 6 months.
• Ordered everything online for the most sensible prices and proved that anyone can pull off a cheap but glamorous wedding. (my wedding saree was 12K :D ppl thought it was 50K AND I wore the SAME saree for my homecoming; i'm so proud of myself:))))) can`t believe I pulled it off)
• Then there were the usual fights with mom which included letting us live separately (which i never thought we could win but we did, we managed to find a separate place to live and mom actually allowed it)    
• Got my hair permed 
• Got through the wedding and finally settled down
• Had to deal with unforeseen conflicts with the hubby; this was the biggest shocker for me, after listening to all my married friends complains,  I discussed all 'potential' issues with my partner before getting married ,but i guess you can`t plan everything.
• This may have been a year  which I cried a lot, realizing things and letting go of things
• I'm still working on it, how to be in a marriage, I do want a meaningful long lasting loving marriage, I hope I can have it
• Discovering Vishen Lakhiani and gratitude log has been one of the highlights of the year, i'm truly grateful. Its amazing how kind words from someone from the gratitude community can give you the strength to get through tough days.
• Listening to you tube vids of Tony Robbins and a lot of others helped me a lot
• Straightened my hair(again)
• Started doing an MBA (something i never thought i would do, i always wanted to be a scientist, and after i became one, well i wanna keep learning something. Life seems empty when there is no progress)
• Started wondering why I started an MBA (:D)
• Realized that I don`t like alcohol that much and sometimes I even hated it
• Feels like i finally 'bonded' with my boss, but i'm not sure whether I wanna keep working there. The place is ok, but there's this sense of uncertainty and half the time I feel like that place just sucks the life out of me.
•  Finally got to a 'no fire zone' with my mom. We actually appreciate each other more now
• There were many moments that I felt truly loved and many moments I questioned that. Hopefully There will only be moments that I feel loved next year

All in all it has been an exceptionally mentally challenging/draining year for me. But I got through it, I survived and even developed a new sleeping habit to fall asleep (I close my eyes and focus on my heartbeat and within seconds I fall asleep!).

Hopefully next year I will be granted with a bigger paycheck and a much more satisfying job :) And of course what I hope for every year.......Inner peace...........